This morning I was in the basement scouring through cobwebs and boxes for some Christmas tree lights for use at the store. We're setting up a little half-tree and planning the Christmas merchandising of ornaments. Now before you start whining about "Christmas aaaaallllreaaaadddyy?" I have one thing to say: shut up. It's eight weeks away and frankly it's about time you all learned how retail works.
There is a certain amount of square footage in stores designated as "seasonal". There is nothing else to go in that spot (otherwise it would be already somewhere else in the store.) Consequently, some stores put out their seasonal merchandise pre-seasonally because otherwise it would be a big empty space where dust, dead bugs and live spiders collect. Want to see that when you are shopping? Probably not. (It also makes the store look like it is going out of business when it is not.) Many stores have no space to store freight so as it comes in it goes right out on the shelves. It doesn't make sense to wait and put out the winter coats on December first when the snow flies early in November - they go out in September when people are thinking and planning ahead. Please note: You are not at any point in your life forced to look at or purchase anything in the seasonal section so walk on by and get to whatever it is you need. ( BTW, if you shop to kill time, you need a life. )
Back to the tree lights.
While rummaging around in the basement I saw lots of lovely things I used to put up for Christmas. I remembered my "To Tree or Not to Tree" dilemma and made a decision: I'm going to start decking. Not immediately - I have a home-grown pumpkin and gourds on my mantle and I like that. We haven't had a hard frost or a warm fire yet, so I'm not completely off the reservation. However, I am planning on spending some time in the basement this week, sorting it all out and planning what will go where. I'm going to put it up and ENJOY looking at it all through November and December. I'm going to decorate the dining room, the family room, our bedroom and the kitchen. I have all of these beautiful things that make me happy to look at - what purpose do they serve in boxes downstairs? Some of them have been down there in the dark so long I have forgotten about them. (Hey, new stuff!) Thanksgiving, my favorite holiday, falls in the middle of it all and gives me a perfect opportunity to stop and inventory the past year and count the many blessings, people and gifts in my life.
Today is our 24th wedding anniversary but Joe is at a City Council meeting tonight so there won't be moonlight and roses and that is ok. Tomorrow night we're planning to get Chinese food & crack open a very good bottle of champagne and watch our wedding video. We haven't watched it in about 20 years - at first it was old hat, but eventually we stopped watching because as we lost family members and other loved ones we just couldn't bear to look at them without weeping.
Too often I plod through the days and weeks and seasons and think about "next year, next time." It feels like it's time now. I may be dissolved in tears through much of the wedding video but we both want to look back and remember the day - and laugh at the bad 80's hair and shoulder pads. I will probably get weepy unfolding the Christmas table runner Mom made but I want it out and on display - it is gorgeous.
It is time.
